當自慰成為習慣

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　　（續上篇）

　　性讓人體會快感與滿足，同時會令人感到彷徨與無助。

Sex gives people pleasure and satisfaction, and at the same time it gives them a sense of frustration and helplessness.

　　以優異成績畢業，入了一間具規模的公司工作，本應為自己前景雀躍的他，喜悅已被焦慮與疲倦淹蓋，因為他每天都糾纏於不為人知的性慾掙扎。

Graduated from his high grades and joined a structured company to work for him, whom he should have been looking forward to, joy had been overwhelmed by anxiety and fatigue, because he was entangled every day in unknowing sexual struggles.

　　「上班途中，看到性感的女士，自然就有性衝動。擠迫的地鐵車廂內，貼臉髮香，擦身接觸，令自己很亢奮。回到office，視覺嗅覺記憶，混雜AV的畫面，一直盤旋腦海，連工作集中力也受影響。總不能不顧工作找個地方自慰發洩，唯有忍著……」他繼續道：「我覺得有點失控感覺。」

"When you see a sexy lady on your way to work, it's natural to have sexual impulses. In a crowded subway car, you get excited by the smell of your face, rub your face, and touch yourself. Back to the office, visual smelling memories, confused AV images, you've been spinning your head, and you've been affected by the concentration of your work. You can't stop looking for a place to masturbate, but you have to bear it." He goes on and says, "I feel a little out of control."

　　放工後他會趕回家，入房、上網、自慰。

After work, he would go home, go to his room, go online, masturbate.

性慾失控一般有以下特徵：

"Strong" has the following characteristics:

　　1) 花在性的次數或時間愈來愈多；

1) The number or amount of time spent on sex is increasing;

　　2) 因性而導致生活中的負面後果，包括需要浪費大量金錢或時間，妨礙了工作或學業，影響正常社交生活等；

2) the negative consequences of life due to sex, including the need to spend a great deal of money or time, hindering work or studies, affecting normal social life, etc.;

　　3) 即使知道後果不良或嚴重，想停止卻無法自控。

3) Even if they know the consequences are bad or severe, they cannot control themselves if they want to stop.

　　處理性慾的模式很多時由青少年期開始建立，所以我跟他談過去處理性慾和自慰的經驗。

Models for dealing with sexuality are often built up in adolescence, so I talked to him about past experiences in dealing with sex and masturbation.

　　「很多時都是一個人在家，閒時覺得悶，會上網看『甜古』（註：色情故事）、AV，一邊看一邊自慰。」他又說：「考試時期壓力大，自慰次數也較多，自慰完會覺得舒服一點。」

“Many times a man is at home, bored in his leisure, and on the Internet he looks at the "Sweet Age" and AV, while he looks at the masturbation.” He also says, “The period of examination is stressful, the number of times of masturbation is greater, and the time of masturbation is more comfortable.”

　　由中學到大學，不論是閒來沉悶時增加亢奮快感，還是面對壓力時放鬆紓緩，他都透過性作心境調節，性漸漸成為他生活中不可或缺的倚賴。

From high school to university, he became an indispensable dependency in his life, either by increasing excitement when he was bored or by relaxing in the face of stress.

　　當自慰成為習慣與焦點，當愈專注就愈被專注所束縛，到現在他也搞不清性興奮與自慰是他的problem還是solution。

When masturbation became a habit and a focus, it became more and more focused, and now he has no idea whether sexual excitement and masturbation are his problem or solution.

　　人的內心需要各式各樣的人和事經驗來滿足，愈是充滿熱情動力，感覺生活豐富的人，性慾失控的機會率，相對較低。

The human heart needs to be satisfied with all kinds of people and experience, and the more passionate the people who feel rich in life, the less likely they are to lose control of their sexuality.

　　當心底目標模糊，生活滿足感愈來愈少，人總會用力抓住一點東西，性往往是短時間內，令人可以從身理及心理上，體會自身感覺的捷徑。

Be careful that the ends of life are blurred and that the satisfaction of life is less and less, people will always grasp something, often for a short period of time, so that they can physically and psychologically appreciate the shortcuts to their own feelings.

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